“Don't waste your time
trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their
love, win their love or salvage their respect for you. The truth is
this: If they care they will go out of their way to learn the truth. If
they don't then they really don't value you as a human being. The moment
you have to sell people on who you are is the moment you let yourself
believe that every good thing you have ever done or accomplished was
invisible to the world. And, it is not!”
― Shannon L. Alder